A sea of new faces, big unfamiliar buildings and a strict new schedule are all daunting prospects for a five year old, but local health experts say there are ways you can help ease your child into their first few weeks of school.
South Western Sydney Local Health District director of community paediatrics Dr Romy Hurwitz says communication was key in helping children to be positive and confident during their first weeks.
“For most children, kindergarten is an exciting and wonderful year. However, the confidence, adaptability and stamina of first timers are challenged in the new school environment,” Dr Hurwitz said.
“Help children to talk about what they’re feeling so that when they are feeling sad or anxious they have the words to use to describe their feelings.
“Don’t dismiss their worries and anxieties but ask them what they are concerned about and reassure the children that it is normal to feel nervous about new things,” she said.
Dr Hurwitz said parents should expect some minor setbacks but these were very normal.
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“However, some children react to the challenges with immature or dependent behaviour such as tantrums, shyness or wetting pants.
“This can be confusing and embarrassing for the child, siblings and parents.
“The important thing is support children with reassurance, confidence and patience,” Dr Hurwitz said.
Dr Hurwitz’s tips for parents:
• Discuss questions and concerns rather than letting children build up a fear of the unknown.
• Allow children to help choose lunchboxes, stationary or schoolbags so they have a sense of control and positive anticipation.
• Read together often. Shared book reading with your children will create special moments for you and your child and help them to see the importance of reading.
• Tell positive stories about your own experiences in kindergarten.
• Stay supportive – setbacks are common.
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